5. Reject Hostile Sexism
The study identified hostile sexism as a core feature of toxic masculinity. This includes overtly negative beliefs about women, such as seeing them as manipulative, inferior, or adversarial.
Atoxic men reject these views entirely. They do not see gender relations as a competition for power. Instead, they approach women—and all people—with respect and equality.
6. Question “Benevolent” Sexism
Interestingly, researchers also examined benevolent sexism—attitudes that appear positive on the surface but still reinforce limiting stereotypes.
Examples include assuming women need protection, are naturally less capable in certain domains, or require unsolicited help. Though often framed as chivalry, these behaviors can subtly reinforce inequality.
Atoxic men reflect on their assumptions. They offer help when asked, not out of stereotype. They support autonomy rather than dependency.
Good intentions are not enough—awareness matters.
7. Support Efforts to Prevent Domestic Violence
Another striking finding: men high in toxic masculinity were more likely to oppose domestic violence prevention initiatives.
Atoxic men actively support programs that reduce relationship violence and protect vulnerable individuals. They recognize that strength is demonstrated through responsibility, not control.
True masculinity does not tolerate abuse—it stands against it.
8. Value Equality Over Dominance
The final component examined was social dominance orientation—a preference for hierarchical systems in which some groups dominate others.
Men high in toxic masculinity favored rigid hierarchies and strong dominance structures. Atoxic men, in contrast, prefer social equality. They are comfortable sharing power and status, regardless of gender.
Leadership rooted in equality fosters trust. Leadership rooted in dominance breeds fear.
Redefining Strength
The research makes something clear: toxic masculinity is not about being male—it’s about rigid identity, prejudice, hostility, entitlement, sexism, and dominance.
Atoxic masculinity is different.
It is grounded rather than defensive.
- Confident rather than controlling.
- Strong without being oppressive.
- Self-assured without being narcissistic.
Most men already fall closer to this healthier model than public discourse often suggests.
The real challenge isn’t eliminating masculinity—it’s refining it.
Healthy masculinity doesn’t require proving anything. It simply requires integrity.
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